The 28-year-old woman, who lives with her 34-year-old male roommate, returned home after a weekend away to find that his visiting friend, Sarah, had used most of her high-end hair products.
"I told her that no one else's partners would be there and she said that since being married they are a 'package' deal and only attend things together ... felt I was being rude.
It’s more than okay to set boundaries around your time and energy by saying no say no to things you don’t want to do, but waiting until the very last moment is an example of rude behavior.